relax & rebuild

BUILDING SELF-WORTH IN PARADISE

July 18-23, 2023  

Tulum, Mexico  

relax & rebuild

BUILDING 
SELF-WORTH
IN PARADISE

July 18-23, 2023  

Tulum, Mexico  

ONLY

13
SPOTS LEFT

On July 18th, join me in Tulum, MX for 6 days/5 nights at a private villa, where we will eat delicious food, have life-changing sessions, & create magical experiences.

On July 18th, join me in Tulum, MX for 6 days/5 nights at a private villa, where we will eat delicious food, have life-changing sessions, & create magical experiences.

Now, before I tell you ALLLLLLL the details of this RETREAT,

Who is this retreat for?

  • ALL women (single or coupled) who want to build self-worth and explore Tulum.
  • Ladies who feels like they need a break from the stresses and overwhelm of life.
  • Women who want to hang out with other incredible women who are also working on themselves.
  • Are ok with swear-bears (I believe there are plenty of bad words out there, I don't think fuck is one of them).
  • It is for people who don't mind super smart but slightly sweary leaders (aka Kira), because I swear when I am passionate & I am passionate about self-worth! 🙂
  • Ladies who are coming to learn and connect NOT party or hook-up.
  • Have a valid passport that does not expire for AT LEAST 6 MONTHS from date of return.
  • Are at least 21 years old

I'm proud to say that my retreats are:

Body-positive, open-minded, anti-racist & full of kind, intelligent women.

If you don't feel like that describes you,
this is not the retreat for you.

If you don't feel like that describes you, this is not the retreat for you.

Former retreat participant love

“This work will challenge you, stretch you, & grow you, but you won’t regret showing up for you and the relationships in your life!

Kira & this community make it possible to learn & grow in a welcoming, compassionate, & supportive setting.”

Krista, CA

Read more success stories here.

WHAT WE ARE LEARNING

WHAT WE ARE LEARNING

Daily morning group sessions

 

Every morning, we gather together to dig into some of the deeper parts of love.

This retreat’s theme is Building Self-Worth.

Self-worth is the internal sense of being good enough and worthy of love and belonging no matter what.  It’s the deep, unshakeable belief someone has that we are loved and worthy to be loved.

 

Daily morning group sessions

 

Every morning, we gather together to dig into some of the deeper parts of love.

This retreat’s theme is Building Self-Worth.

Self-worth is the internal sense of being good enough and worthy of love and belonging no matter what.  It’s the deep, unshakeable belief someone has that we are loved and worthy to be loved.

 

Signs your self-worth may need work:

  • Feel like you don’t have control over your life
  • Constantly comparing yourself to others and end up feeling like crap
  • Can’t accept negative feedback or constructive criticism
  • Hard time accepting compliments
  • Hard on yourself. Especially in your head.
  • Fear of failure
  • Self-sabotage (in the form of not trying)
  • You don’t trust yourself & your decisions so you are constantly asking for other’s opinions on your life.
  • Scared to ask for help or say no
  • Not able to let people in or connect deeper
  • Choosing unavailable partners
  • Allowing/tolerating shitty behavior from others
  • Push people away who could be good for us.
  • Constantly trying to please others and not let others down
  • Chasing/crushing on people who don’t want to date us
  • Constantly waiting for the other shoe to drop or them to see who you really are.

ANY OF THOSE SOUND FAMILIAR?

If you are jumping up & down like you are on the “Price is Right” saying.. “That’s me!” 

Then it looks like you’re in the right place, Fancy Pantsy!

(Keep scrolling, my friend. Sh*t is about to get good.)

in my 15 years of teaching about love,
I'm going to be so bold to say that

almost all of your problems come from self-worth

But you can learn the mindsets & skills to build it...and that work will change your life.
in my 15 years of teaching about love,
I'm going to be so bold to say that...

almost all of your problems come from self-worth

But you can learn the mindsets & skills to build it...and that work will change your life.

Well hello there!
I'm Kira

I’m a positive psychology practitioner + healthy dating and relationship educator, and sweary podcaster who has been helping people around the globe build foundational mindsets and skills for ALL relationships since 2007.

Why go with me? This will be my 27th Retreat!  Since 2014, I have taken groups of amazing women all around the world. Costa Rica, Greece, Italy, Mexico, cruises, and multiple cities around the US. I have actually lived in both Mexico and Costa Rica in the last 5 years.

Why does that matter?  Because traveling (specially as a solo woman) can bring up its own set of challenges. Late flights, lost luggage, language barriers, all of it. I set these retreats up for ease. You just have to get your flights & insurance and show up!

Winner, winner taco dinner!🌮

Meet your retreat assistant- Autumn

Hey, I’m Autumn & live in Olympia, WA. I am an assistant principal at an elementary school.

I had very little self-worth when I started working with Kira. I had no idea how self-worth was connected to pretty much every area in my life not just my dating life. Kira was able to connect all those dots for me.

I have to say working on my self-worth has been a game changer for me. Some highlights are I went after my dream job, have gone on a solo trip, and actually ask for what I want from others.

Excited to be going on this retreat and being able to support you all in a life changing experience. ​

Former retreat participant love

“This process isn’t about finding the perfect relationship with a romantic partner; this class is about improving your relationship with yourself, and all the “ships” you have in life: family, friends, coworkers, AND significant others.”
Kendra
DC
“Kira helps you to know yourself, how you think, what you need and want and what your priorities are and that is foundational for being able to foster the best and healthiest relationships not only with yourself but with others.”
Heather
CO

Read more success stories here.

WHERE WE ARE STAYING

Meet our stunning Boho-chic Private Villa with 2 Pools! 

WHERE WE ARE STAYING

Meet our stunning Boho-chic Private Villa with 2 Pools! 

Meet our beautiful 

private villa

Our beautiful property features 11 bedrooms and 12 bathrooms, two spacious living rooms & two full kitchens.

You can enjoy our huge 18-meter-long pools or relax in our outdoor Jacuzzi for up to 8 people.

The villa comes with an amazing team –a  personal on-site concierge, private chef for breakfasts & lunches, and daily cleaning service.

Unlike a hotel, resort, or a retreat center…this place is COMPLETELY ours.  So if it’s been awhile since you have been in a swimsuit, it’s a great time to get a new one (bikini, maybe?). My plus-size cute booty will be in one…so come join me! 

All bodies are beach bodies at my retreats.

Meet our beautiful 

private villa

 

Our beautiful property features 11 bedrooms and 12 bathrooms, two spacious living rooms & two full kitchens.

You can enjoy our huge 18-meter-long pools or relax in our outdoor Jacuzzi for up to 8 people.

The villa comes with an amazing team –a  personal on-site concierge, private chef for breakfasts & lunches, and daily cleaning service.

Unlike a hotel, resort, or a retreat center…this place is COMPLETELY ours.  So if it’s been awhile since you have been in a swimsuit, it’s a great time to get a new one (bikini, maybe?). My plus-size cute booty will be in one…so come join me! 

All bodies are beach bodies at my retreats.

Our villa has:

  • 11 bedrooms/12 baths
  • Two beautiful private pools to swim whenever you want!
  • Pool chairs & beach towels
  • Hot tub for 8 at the end of the day
  • Wireless high speed Internet (100MB) & smart TVs
  • Daily cleaning service included
  • Air-conditioning throughout
  • Purified drinking water
  • Two living rooms for sessions & lounging.

Check out our gorgeous place

Our beautiful villa - we will have to name our floatie out there in the pool.
One of our two beautiful pools to swim any time of the day
That whole triangle is ours!!!!!
Just a few steps from sessions to our PRIVATE POOL:)
Looks like a great place for our breakfasts and lunches!
Another view of one of our pools.
Table for meals.
Entrance to our villa.
One of the two buildings.
Living room & meeting space for sessions.
Another picture of a living room at our villa.
Living room & meeting space for sessions - from the pool looking in.
Another view from our daily sessions looking out to the pool.
Living room & meeting space for sessions.
Can anyone say, macrame?!?!
Living room & meeting space for sessions.
One of two kitchens with private chef, Raul Garcia cooking for us!
Our fridge that will be full of fresh fruits and other yummies!
Where we will eat and connect!
Where we will eat and connect!
Premium single room.
Premium single room.
Shared room for two people.
Shared room for two people.
Larger Single Room
Larger single room.
Larger single room.
Shared room for two people.
Basic Bathroom
Basic Bathroom

Former retreat participant love

"This trip was amazing. I’ve never been so sad to have a vacation end. Between the villa, the excursions, the animal encounters, the warm kind thoughtful considerate welcoming ladies, and Kira and Danny organizing this trip I was beyond impressed. I’m so grateful to have had this experience, and to have met and gotten to know these beautiful souls. I know this will not be the last Kira trip for me."
Tara
PA
"I feel free! I love myself, I set boundaries, I know how to ask for what I need/want. I would recommend this to everyone. Absolutely life changing!"
Melissa
KY
What a day looks like

The relax & rebuild experience

Rise & MEDITATE

You will get a group of short meditations to download on your phone that you wake up with, so you are refreshed & ready for your day! 

8 am BREAKFAST

Our private chef will whip up our daily breakfast that will be loaded with the best of Tulum! Coffee/tea, fresh fruit, juices, eggs &  a special of the day: banana pancakes, chilaquiles, avocado toast, etc.

9 AM MORNING SESSION

Join Kira & the other participants for morning conversations on learning self-worth. We will be talking, laughing, learning, bonding, growing & becoming happier people with self-worth.

NOON LUNCH

Our private chef will be back & whipping up our beautiful lunches too! Poke bowls, tacos, buddha bowls.  Made from yummy, fresh ingredients.

12 pm FREE TIME

The afternoons are yours! You can head down to the beach, sit by the pool, or go on a tour set-up by our Concierge. You can do as much or as little as you want. 

4:30 SUNSET GRATITUDES

We will reconnect as we watch the sunset from our private deck or pool and talk about the best parts of our day. 

 

5:30 PM DINNER

Dinner is open.  We will have a few group dinners and a few on your own.  Most dinner prices are not included in the overall price.  

AFTER DINNER FREE TIME

Want to take a dip in the pool?  Play some board games? Dig into that book you’ve been reading? Or head to bed early since you had a fun day of learning and adventure?  It’s free time, baby!

DOWNLOAD ITINERARY for the
whole retreat
So you know exactly what you are doing.
CHECK IT OUT HERE

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Mexico 2019
Mexico 2017
2018 Retreat in Mexico
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Mexico 2018
2018 Retreat in Mexico
Love Reset in Denver!

Former retreat participant love

“This work will change every facet of your life – yes, it will change your romantic relationships but it will change how you show up in every relationship….for the better.”

Amanda, PA

WHAT WE WILL EAT

Did someone say tacos?

I think trying local food is one of the best parts of traveling. I’m a true foodie at heart & do a happy dance in my chair every time I am eating yummy, fresh, local food.

 

Because we will be using a private chef for the majority of this retreat, major food allergies & dietary restrictions are not a good match. We can only accommodate the flexitarian (meat and veg), pescatarian (fish and seafood) and vegetarian diets.  Unfortunately, we can not accommodate vegan diets.

I think trying local food is one of the best parts of traveling. I’m a true foodie at heart & do a happy dance in my chair every time I am eating yummy, fresh, local food.

 


Meet our personal chef - Raul Garcia

"Looking forward to nurture your taste and exceed your expectations."
I learned to cook at: I initially learned to cook at my grandmother’s house and my aunt's restaurant, then immediately proceeded to pass through the Restaurants: Slanted Door , Spago by Wolfgang Puck, Philosophy and Osmosis.

For me cooking is:
Nourishment, passion, equilibrium, nature, conscious, and having a great moment to share and enjoy ourselves.

Cooking Role Models:
My grandmother. I also have respect and admiration for Enrique Olvera, Yotam Ottolenghi, Chales Phan, Daniel Humm, & Wolfgang Puck.

Check out some of his beautiful dishes

Former retreat participant love

“Words cannot express how amazed and blessed I feel to have gone to Costa Rica with Kira Sabin. It was the most beautiful place, and I got to meet and spend time with the most beautiful, amazing women. I’m so glad I stumbled upon Kira’s podcast years ago, and am grateful for the work I’ve been able to do with her. Love does exist in these little micro-moments, and I had so many of them this past week!”

 

TERESA, CA

DISCOVER TULUM

Meet Mexico’s Relaxed Paradise

 

Tulum is a town on the Caribbean coastline of Mexico’s Yucatán Peninsula. It’s known for its beaches and well-preserved ruins of an ancient Mayan port city. The main building is a large stone structure called El Castillo (castle), perched on a rocky cliff above the white sand beach and turquoise sea. Near the ruins is the Parque Nacional Tulum, a coastal area with mangroves and cenotes (natural limestone sinkholes).

It’s full of exciting things to do and offers everything from Mayan ruins to pristine beaches to fantastic food.  Let’s chill in Tulum.

Meet Mexico’s Relaxed Paradise

 

Tulum is a town on the Caribbean coastline of Mexico’s Yucatán Peninsula. It’s known for its beaches and well-preserved ruins of an ancient Mayan port city. The main building is a large stone structure called El Castillo (castle), perched on a rocky cliff above the white sand beach and turquoise sea. Near the ruins is the Parque Nacional Tulum, a coastal area with mangroves and cenotes (natural limestone sinkholes).

It’s full of exciting things to do and offers everything from Mayan ruins to pristine beaches to fantastic food.  Let’s chill in Tulum.

Ancient Mayan structure on a tranquil coastline:)
Absolute Magic!!!
"Raw Love" cafe, Tulum. Um, quite an entrance:)
A quick walk to the beach!
A Tulum treehouse.
"Batey Bar" Tulum.
So many Souvenir Shops:)
Downtown Tulum Centro.
Downtown Tulum area.
From "Wild Tulum" restaurant.
I think I could get used to this....
Look at those beautiful waters!
A cenote.
A Tulum beach.
Mayan dance.
Hey little friend!
A nearby beach.
Beautiful vibes on the beach.
I think we can handle this:)

What's included:

PRIVATE SHUTTLE

On July 18th, at 2:00 pm, at the Fairfield Inn & Suites Cancun airport.  We will take a private group shuttle (or two) to our Tulum villa to make travel easy for you. 

BREAKFASTS & LUNCHES

We will have a private chef at the villa who will be making our delicious meals from local foods grown & fished in the region. Lots of fresh fruits, fish, rice & beans, & guacamole!

ALL SESSIONS

All group sessions with Kira are included.  We will be working on building better boundaries and practicing them. There are no one-on-ones included in this retreat, but if you want a session before or after, all participants get a one-on-one session discount.

WELCOME GIFT

I love to spoil my retreat participants. There will always be a gift to help you make the most of your experience.  You will get a mix of luxury essentials to make your trip better.

What's not included:

  • Your flight to and from Cancun, MX
  • Money if you want to explore in the afternoons at the beach or on a tour.
  • Travel Insurance (it is mandatory for YOU.) 
  • Spending money for a few dinners.  $100-$150 at most!
  • THAT’S IT.  I HAVE YOU COVERED!

 CANCELLATION INFO

 

At this time we are so excited to offer a retreat due to vaccinations and the excellent precautions of MX and our villa.  We are also aware that things can change so we want to have a solid and fair policy in place.

Decisions will be made by myself and the group using up to date information from the World Health Organization, CDC and travel restrictions from Mexico and countries that you are traveling from.

You may choose one of the two options below if you need to cancel BEFORE April 15th.  After April 15th, bookings are non-refundable and non-transferrable. For this reason, we STRONGLY encourage you to purchase travel insurance.   Your travel insurance can get you back your flights & other hotels but can’t get you back the price of the retreat.

Option 1: Transfer your payment to a different retreat date and/or destination (subject to a $100 retreat Booking Transfer Fee) taking place within the next 18 months. If you have paid in full, we will refund you the difference in price of the retreat if the new retreats costs less than the one you had booked originally, or invoice you the difference if it is higher.

Option 2: Put your payment on account as credit with us and no expiration date to be used for coaching, classes, or other RQ future events.

Buying Travel Insurance can help make emergency situations easier.  I recommend worldnomads.com

We will not cancel the retreat except for Force Majeure, natural disasters, pandemic, travel bans, war, civil unrest or other unusual or unforeseen circumstances outside our control. 

When a retreat is canceled by us before the agreed date of departure for any reason, you have a number of options

Option 1: Accept the retreat’s new dates for which it was rescheduled

Option 2: Keep your retreat payments as credit (never expires) to apply to any future coaching, classes, or events/retreats.

Option 3:  Request a full refund you less any credit card processing fees or cancellation fees.

You'd be nutso in buttso
not to join us!

6days/5 nights in paradise starting at $399

You'd be nutso in buttso
not to join us!

6 days/5 nights in paradise starting at $399

How to claim your spot!

  • Decide your room choice (single large, single small or shared) below and click on the link.
  • Choose the way you want to pay -payment plan or in full (for a discount!)
  • Understand the cancellation policy and agree in our terms and conditions.
  • Watch for the confirmation email.

CHOOSE YOUR ROOM & PAYMENT OPTIONS

The rooms at the villa are all different, hence the different price points.  

 

I like everything to feel as fair as possible. Some are bigger, some smaller. Some singles, some shared.  Some with their own bathroom, some shared.  Please read the below information carefully so you can choose your favorite option.

But know that whatever you pick, it will still be amazing.

The rooms at the villa are all different, hence the different price points.  

 

I like everything to feel as fair as possible. Some are bigger, some smaller. Some singles, some shared.  Some with their own bathroom, some shared.  Please read the below information carefully so you can choose your favorite option.

But know that whatever you pick, it will still be amazing.

ROOM #1

SOLD OUT

ROOM #2

SOLD OUT

ROOM #3

SOLD OUT

ROOM #4

SINGLE room with queen bed & shared bathroom on the ground level. 

5 payments of $480
PAY IN FULL for $2199

ROOM #5

SINGLE room with queen bed & shared bathroom on the ground level.  Opens to pool.

5 payments of $480
PAY IN FULL for $2199

ROOM #6

SOLD OUT

ROOM #7

SOLD OUT

ROOM #8

SHARED room with two twin beds & own shared bathroom on the upper level.

5 payments of $399
PAY IN FULL for $2399

ROOM #9

SOLD OUT!

ROOM #10

SINGLE room with one king bed & own bathroom on the ground level.

5 payments of $519
PAY IN FULL for $2399

Can’t join this retreat but would like to in the future?  Get on the waitlist to get first dibs on upcoming RQ Retreats!

“Wait, I Have a Question!”

 

You’re in luck: Answers are my specialty.
Here are some of the most common questions I get asked about the event!

NOPE. This is for ALL women over the age of 21 who would like to work on self-worth and enjoy Tulum, 

Yup, we sure can!   If you are signing up with another person, please let us know right away.  There are only 3 shared rooms (6 spots).

Autumn & I will be staying at Fairfield Inn and Suites Cancun airport the night of the 17th.  You are welcome to join us. It is where the shuttles will pick us up on the 18th to take us to the villa.

You can book it yourself or let Kira know and I have a few rooms on hold a room for $145 for a double bed room that could be used as a shared or single room.  They also have a free airport shuttle & breakfast.  Please let Kira know if you want one of the rooms on hold.

INCLUDED

  • Daily deep dive sessions with Kira
  • Single or shared accommodations according to your choice 
  • Breakfast & lunches and non-alcoholic drinks made by our own private chef.
  • An awesome welcome gift from Kira 
  • Transportation to and from the villa in a private group shuttle.
  • A transformative experience!

NOT INCLUDED:

  • Your flight to and from Cancun, MX
  • Travel Insurance 
  • Tours, spa, and extra charge activities in your free time.
  • Dinners out in Tulum.

We will do our best.  If you have an extreme allergy that probably isn’t going to work.  But our chef with be creating meals for most types of diets.

Nope. In fact I will not be supplying alcohol for the villa or retreat.  You are welcome to BYOB and can grab wine and booze from the airport or in Tulum.

However, this is not a party retreat.  If you are coming to live it up, get drunk every night, party…this is not the retreat for you.

If you are coming to hang out with me, other cool women, hang out at our stunning villa, eat delicious, fresh food,  swim, and have a glass of wine or cocktail with dinner, then we are good.

I will be sending out a packing list later this spring.  You will need the basics that you need for any tropical environment: cool clothes with layers, swimsuit, sunscreen, etc.  You will not need anything that different.

Of course you are nervous!  That is 100% normal. 

Getting real with ourselves and vulnerable with others can feel super scary!  But let me tell you this.  Getting real and getting vulnerable are crucial for all relationships, so why not practice in a completely safe and supportive space.  

You will be encouraged to speak up, connect, share, laugh, open you mind, dig deep…all of it!  But that is how you walk away a better person!

CANCUN AIRPORT

CUN

Arrival flights – Before Noon on July 18th (to make sure you get through customs & immigration in a timely manner.

Departure flights – After 1 pm on Sunday, July 23rd

YES!  Most women coming won’t know anyone and you will have the chance to make friends before you arrive in a private group for retreat goers!

Nope.  At this time all events are for women or anyone who identifies as a woman.

Yes!  You have to be 21 to attend the retreat.

Don’t take my word for it! (anyone get that Reading Rainbow reference?)

Go take a look at all my testimonials here!

Go read the cancellation policy here.

HAVE MORE QUESTIONS?

Email Kira at [email protected]
or click the “Hey! Kira Here! Pink chat box in the lower right corner.

I usually answer within 24 hours.

Listen to what others have to say at the end of their retreat!

Check out ALL my Success Stories Here!