The most comprehensive program for singles to learn the mindsets & skills to date with intention & confidence.
The brand-new revolutionary Reinventing Dating Program is the only program for singles that not only teaches you to date & create relationships with ease — but how to know what you are personally looking for & the skills to get it.
The most comprehensive program for singles to learn the mindsets & skills to date for happy, healthy, unshakeable love.
The brand-new revolutionary Reinventing Dating Program is the only program for singles that not only teaches you to date & create relationships with ease — but how to know what you are personally looking for & the skills to get it.
It's time we reinvent dating
It's time we reinvent dating
What is this 7th circle of hell we call modern dating?
Everyone wants love, but nobody wants to deal with dating to get it. Am I right?
Dating has become this exhausting chore full of unknowns, awkward texting, swiping, occasional mean people, and a whole bunch of time & energy suck.
It’s no wonder I’m seeing a huge backlash of people who are over it & deciding it’s just not worth it.
What is this 7th circle of hell we call modern dating?
Everyone wants love, but nobody wants to deal with dating to get it. Am I right?
Dating has become this exhausting chore full of unknowns, awkward texting, swiping, occasional mean people, and a whole bunch of time & energy suck.
It’s no wonder I’m seeing a huge backlash of people who are over it & deciding it’s just not worth it.
But I’m living proof that love & relationships can be better than you even imagine & is worth working towards.
But I’m living proof that love & relationships can be better than you even imagine & is worth working towards.
Who is this for?
- This program is for ALL singles. It is for EVERYONE who wants to do the work towards a healthy & happy partnership. Men, women or however you identify. All are welcome.
- You believe love is for everyone. No matter their size, shape, color of their skin, sexual orientation, & gender identity. If you think only some people deserve love, this program is NOT for you.
- You are looking for and willing to work for a real & healthy partnership instead of fairytales and happily-ever-afters.
- This is for people who are over the games & sh*tty dating culture and ready to learn the mindsets and skills to date with intention & integrity.
- It is for people who don't mind super smart but slightly sweary leaders (aka Kira), because I swear when I am passionate & I am passionate about love! 🙂
- It is for people who like to learn LIVE. All work is done weekly on Sunday workshops & Tuesday evening discussion calls. This is not self-paced, it is done week by week.
If you are jumping up & down like you are on the “Price is Right” saying.. “That’s me!”
Then it looks like you’re in the right place, Fancy Pantsy!
(Keep scrolling, my friend. Sh*t is about to get good.)
BY THE END OF THIS PROGRAM YOU WILL:
CREATE A DATING & RELATIONSHIP BLUEPRINT
Based on your personal needs, attachment style, values & dealbreakers, you will know who is a good match for you & how to spot them in real life.
HAVE A SOLID MEETING PEOPLE STRATEGY
You will know where you want to put your time & where you don’t. You will also have a solid action plan on how & where to meet new people.
KNOW HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES
Pre & post-date strategies & assessments for dating smarter, not harder. Questions, scripts, fun date ideas, expectations & more for the best first dates ever!
BE ABLE TO OUTSMART THINKING TRAPS
Understand the mindsets & limiting beliefs that trip us up while dating. You will be able to spot them & reframe them in the moment.
CREATE A DATING & RELATIONSHIP BLUEPRINT
Based on your personal needs, attachment style, values & dealbreakers, you will know who is a good match for you & how to spot them in real life.
HAVE A SOLID MEETING PEOPLE STRATEGY
You will know where you want to put your time & where you don’t. You will also have a solid action plan on how & where to meet new people.
KNOW HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES
Pre & post-date strategies & assessments for dating smarter, not harder. Questions, scripts, fun date ideas, expectations & more for the best first dates ever!
BE ABLE TO OUTSMART THINKING TRAPS
Understand the mindsets & limiting beliefs that trip us up while dating. You will be able to spot them & reframe them in the moment.
HAVE BUILT THE FOUNDATIONAL KNOWLEDGE FOR RELATIONSHIPS
Not even sure what healthy love is & what it looks & feels like? You will at the end of this program! You will be a dating & relationship genius and even unicorns will be in awe of you.
BE ABLE TO SPOT RED, YELLOW & GREEN FLAGS
Not only will you be able to spot personal & universal red, yellow & green flags right away, you will know what to do with them. If you need to stay, clarify, or move on.
KNOW HOW TO HAVE TOUGH CONVERSATIONS
Communication makes or breaks a relationship. You will get scripts & strategies for ALL STAGES of dating & new relationships. Awkward dating conversations, how to “Define the Relationship”, & how to walk away kindly if needed.
FIND HOPE & RESILIENCE EVEN IN THE TOUGHEST MOMENTS
Dating can feel hard. Especially when we like someone & they don’t reciprocate your feelings. You will learn grit & resilience to deal with rejection & find hope…even in the toughest moments.
HAVE BUILT THE FOUNDATIONAL KNOWLEDGE FOR RELATIONSHIPS
Not even sure what healthy love is & what it looks & feels like? You will at the end of this program! You will be a dating & relationship genius and even unicorns will be in awe of you.
BE ABLE TO SPOT RED, YELLOW & GREEN FLAGS
Not only will you be able to spot personal & universal red, yellow & green flags right away, you will know what to do with them. If you need to stay, clarify, or move on.
KNOW HOW TO HAVE TOUGH CONVERSATIONS
Communication makes or breaks a relationship. You will get scripts & strategies for ALL STAGES of dating & new relationships. Awkward dating conversations, how to “Define the Relationship”, & how to walk away kindly if needed.
FIND HOPE & RESILIENCE EVEN IN THE TOUGHEST MOMENTS
Dating can feel hard. Especially when we like someone & they don’t reciprocate your feelings. You will learn grit & resilience to deal with rejection & find hope…even in the toughest moments.
My promise to you.
But above all else…
The Reinventing Dating Program will give you the confidence to finally feel like you know what the heck you are doing while dating & creating a relationship.
No more guess work.
No more hoping your partner knows what they are doing (they probably don’t.)
No more crossing your fingers that it will work out.
You will have the knowledge, skills & mindsets for unshakeable love.
My promise to you.
But above all else…
The Reinventing Dating Program will give you the confidence to finally feel like you know what the heck you are doing while dating & creating a relationship.
No more guess work.
No more hoping your partner knows what they are doing.
No more crossing your fingers that it will work out.
You will have the knowledge, skills & mindsets for unshakeable love.
SUCCESS STORY
"Why didn't I do this sooner?"
Sara, OH
How this program is different than anything out there.
Weekly Interactive Video Calls
Where 98% of this work happens.
Every Sunday we learn, practice, & discuss our topic during our weekly interactive workshop.
To succeed in this process you only need to show up for the calls. There is no homework to fall behind on.
Q & A + Skill Practice Calls
A few times a month we will get on a call to discuss or practice what we learned in the Sunday Workshops for deeper understanding and skill-building.
I will also be bringing in guest experts to bring in new insights and new skills like the awesome Rob Mack —>
Action Steps & Real Life Application
Who cares what you learn if you never actually apply it? #nobody.
Which is why every single week you will have ONE mini action item to help apply what you learned to your life.
As the program progresses, we will have fun challenges, checklists, & scavenger hunts to practice skills & meet new people! In real life! Where love freakin’ exists!
Because information does not create transformation, application does.
Your Portal
Need to listen to the replay?
Get bonus resources to learn more?
Check out TV & Movie recommendations on the weekly topic?
I keep it super easy in dropbox to be able to access all recordings, bonus workbooks, playlists, meditations, and more!
Welcome Gift!
Who doesn’t love getting prezzies in the mail?
You will receive a fun welcome package full of gifts to support you in this process.
Wait. Did I mention we are also going to Mexico?
Cause that’s happening!
Wait. Did I mention we are also going to Mexico?
Cause that’s happening!
We will be doing an optional 6 day/5 night retreat in Cancun, MX to meet each other, hang out with Rob & I, & practice EVERYTHING we learned.
We spend our mornings in session & your afternoons are for swimming, relaxing, beach time, tours or more!
Once you've signed up & THE PROGRAM is started you will get the option to sign-up for the retreat.
(THE RETREAT IS FOR REINVENTING DATING PROGRAM PARTICIPANTS ONLY & STARTS AT $999 FOR A SHARED ROOM.)
So as you start to thaw from winter, you will be ready to date like a champion!
So as you start to thaw from winter, you will be ready to date like a champion!
SUCCESS STORY
"This work will change every facet of your life"
Amanda, PA
Wondering what we are learning?
I got you.
Let’s make sure we’re all talking the same language and understand what love & healthy relationships are.
You will learn:
- What is Love vs Attachment, Like, Lust, Love-Bombing, & Trauma bonding
- History of Dating & Relationships (to see how we ended up here)
- Modern Partnership Essentials
- Stages of Relationships (and why most of us don’t get past #2)
- Realistic dating & relationship timelines & steps for best chance of success.
How you work, what you need, who's a good match for you, because it's different for everyone.
You will learn:
- How you learned to love and if it was healthy & helpful
- Attachment styles & Love Languages
- Your Key Values and Strengths and what you bring to the relationship
- Dealbreakers and Relationship Styles so you can spot a great match
- Who should get power in your life & who shouldn’t.
- How & when to share your story for best connection & success.
Learn the healthy perspectives & skills to get & sustain unshakeable love.
- Feeling worthy of healthy love & partners
- Limiting Beliefs that are holding you back and sabotaging you without you even knowing it.
- Processing Emotions & Healthy Coping Skills so you are ready for your dates!
- Growth vs Fixed Mindsets in Dating and Relationships.
- Being Able to Ask for What You Need in dating and new relationships
- Building Grit & Resilience to be able to bounce back after disappointment
- Building boundaries that leads to deep trust and connection.
- How to connect with the right people for you!
Real & helpful resources to date with integrity & intention. Plus, be able to spot your person in real life!
You will learn:
- How to meet people in real life – Spoiler Alert: you will have to leave your house. 😂
- Personal & Universal Red Flags, Yellow Flags & Green Flags and what to do when they show up.
- Pre-date strategies and post-date assessments for intentional success
- Great first dates ideas, questions, guidelines, strategies, and safety tips so you feel confident and ready
- Spotting Emotionally Available People while dating and meeting people
- Sex in new relationships –timelines & convos for best success and orgasms! Yeah, I said it.
What you need to know to build something unshakeable that keeps it fun, easy, & feeling good at all times.
- How to have tough conversations where everyone feels good.
- How to show up for your partner and find out how they want to be loved
- Learning Love Mapping & Creating Relationship Contracts that leave everyone feeling safe
- Deep Listening & Communication for intimacy and everyone feeling seen, heard & loved.
- Learn how to collaborate so you never have to feel like you compromised what’s important to you.
- Resolving Problems and conflict so it doesn’t keep coming up again and again.
Sounds amazing, right?
There is no other program out there like this for singles.
Seriously.
No homework!
Because all of the learning is done on the Sunday workshops & Tuesday night calls, you just need 2-3 hours a week for this program.
And you can find 2-3 hours a week for your future amazing relationship. Right?
Check out the structure of our workshops!
If you make the calls or recordings a priority:
*you will never be behind
*you cannot fail at this
*this will be a game-changer for your love life.
Plus, even if you are someone (like me) that has a hard time finishing programs, I have created a few things that can help:
- PORTAL: Our fancy portal send reminders if you haven't signed in for a bit & rewards you with points for everything you finish to win freebies & prizes.
- ATTENDANCE RAFFLE: Every once in a while I will be holding a surprise raffle for participants who showed up that day, with the chance to win my favorite books, and fun gifts!
- FUN LEARNING: I keep it fresh & fun because that's the way I like to learn too. On our workshop calls we will be doing game shows (like Jeopardy, Family Feud, etc.) to help retain the material in a fun way!
- PORTAL: Our fancy portal send reminders if you haven't signed in for a bit & rewards you with points for everything you finish to win freebies & prizes.
- ATTENDANCE RAFFLE: Every once in a while I will be holding a surprise raffle for participants who showed up that day, with the chance to win my favorite books, and fun gifts!
- FUN LEARNING: I keep it fresh & fun because that's the way I like to learn too. On our workshop calls we will be doing game shows (like Jeopardy, Family Feud, etc.) to help retain the material in a fun way!
Well hello there!
I'm Kira
I’m a positive psychology practitioner + healthy dating and relationship educator who has been helping singles around the globe build mindsets and skills since 2007.
I am obsessed with helping people get out of their own way to create stunning, happy partnerships.
I have worked with 1000s of people to help them build the dating and relationship mindsets & skills so they know how to spot a great person for them & build a relationship.
Because meeting someone is only the first step.
What it is like working with me...
Science backed information
Love is weird and feels abstract, but I bring the science & research! All of the work I share is backed with research, neuroscience, positive psychology, and more!
Learning through Media
Listen, you are probably watching TV (like me) so why not learn while watching? I share my favorite shows & movies to role model what we are learning for better learning.
HONEST BUT KIND FEEDBACK
I am here to tell you what you friends & family won’t, but the feedback will always be kind & it will always be optional. I’m actually a big old marshmallow.
SCAVENGER HUNTS & CHALLENGES
Practice & meeting people doesn’t have to suck. I love to create mini challenges, checklists, scavenger hunts, and more to get you out practicing what you learned & meeting new people.
& meet the amazing co-hosts!
Grads from previous Relationship Quotient programs will be joining us on calls & in community to support, cheer you on, help answer questions, co-host game shows, DJ, & so much more. These ladies are incredible!
What's Included
WEEKLY INTERACTIVE WORKSHOPS
Every Sunday we will be kicking ass & taking names! Everything you need will be taught on these calls! Each week is a different skill, mindset or knowledge you need!
Tuesday Discussion Calls
A few Tuesdays a month we will dig in deeper or practice what we learned with Kira or guest experts.
WELCOME GIFT
IN THE MAIL
I love to spoil my program participants. You will get some fun & helpful presents in the mail to help you make the most of your experience.
PERSONAL PORTAL
Need to listen to the replay? Download your weekly Cheat Sheet? Check out TV & Movie recommendations on the weekly topic? It’s in your portal.
Dating & Relationship resources
You will get amazing dating resources that you can find NOWHERE else, because I created them. Scripts, questions, date ideas, timelines, text guidelines, pep talks, meditations, and so much more!
DATING & RELATIONSHIP BLUEPRINT
Each workshop you will be building self-awareness, relationship knowledge, and skills & mindsets. At the end of it, we will create your personal dating blueprint so you know what to look for & how to get out of your own way.
PRIVATE COMMUNITY
I run a pretty tight ship so that this program is ALWAYS a safe space. This is a safe space where you can share, post questions, & be seen by like-minded singles. Plus our community is a great practice space for new skills.
LIFETIME ACCESS
At the end of the program you will get a link that has all of the cheat sheets, recordings, resources & more so that you have your info FOREVER to refer back to whenever you need it.
DIY workshops for specific situations that drop in April as you get ready for dating.
- Dating as a single parent
- Dating with an STD
- Dating as a plus-size person
- Dating when you have ZERO experience
- Dating after a divorce or break-up
- Dating as a single parent
- Dating with an STD
- Dating as a plus-size person
- Dating when you have ZERO experience
- Dating after a divorce or break-up
How to Join!
Step 1
Scroll down & choose between a six month payment plan or pay up front for a nice discount. You will get an email immediately to confirm your spot.
Step 2
On October 30th, you will get an email to let you into the portal for your pre-work to get the most out of this experience.
Step 3
The program officially starts on November 6th on our Welcome Call at 2 pm EST. Download the calendar here.
NEXT ROUND OPENS IN APRIL 2023!
GET ON THE WAITLIST!
“Wait, I Have a Question!”
You’re in luck: Answers are my specialty.
Here are some of the most common questions I get asked about the program
All sales are final and non-refundable. I stand behind this program 1000000%. I am going above and beyond to make this easy to stay motivated and finish.
I think it important to commit mentally and financially to a program or you will never do it. I want people who are committing to this process.
If for any reason your life blows up and you can’t complete the program, reach out to Kira and we will put you in the next round or put your money towards another program.
There is a strict no dating or hitting on fellow participants in the program while you are in it.
This is self work and it is important people feel safe.
However, if you join us in Mexico and hit it off with someone, then go for it! It’s a nice bonus on the program but should not be you sole reason for joining.
This program is for ALL singles. It is for EVERYONE who wants to do the work towards a healthy & happy partnership. Men, women, hetero, queer, or however you identify. All are welcome. You need to be 21 and over.
Come on and join us! ALL SESSIONS ARE RECORDED.
You should be able to make the Sunday workshops they are at 2 pm EST and you can check out the recordings for Tuesdays. Plus, if I have enough people I will add a second Tuesday call at a time that works for other countries. All things are possible.
May 9th – 14th, 2023
In Cancun, MX – CUN airport.
Workshops are on Sundays at 2 pm EST & Discussion calls are on Tuesdays at 8 pm EST.
Nope. In fact I will not be supplying alcohol & have chosen a hotel where beverages are optional.
However, this is not a party retreat. If you are coming to live it up, get drunk every night, party…this is not the retreat for you.
You don’t need anything too special. You will just need access to a computer that has a camera with decent internet for our video calls.
Of course you are nervous! That is 100% normal.
Getting real with ourselves and vulnerable with others can feel super scary! But let me tell you this. Getting real and getting vulnerable are crucial for all relationships, so why not practice in a completely safe and supportive space.
You will be encouraged to speak up, connect, share, laugh, open you mind, dig deep…all of it! But that is how you walk away a better person!
Absolutely! I created this program for everyone.
Yes! You have to be 21 to attend the program & retreat.
Don’t take my word for it! (anyone get that Reading Rainbow reference?)
HAVE MORE QUESTIONS?
Email Kira at [email protected] or click the chat box in the lower right corner.