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Were you raised abiding by the Golden Rule, aka “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you”? This rule sounds like it would be revolutionary for our society, but in reality, it’s not. 

Listen in to this episode of the RQ Podcast as Kira talks about why the Golden Rule doesn’t work and why it’s keeping you single or unhappy in friendships, dating, and relationships. Then, she shares what actually DOES work… Spoiler: It’s called the Platinum Rule!

The Platinum Rule is what will keep you, your friends, your family, and your partner(s) happy and fulfilled in your relationships. So, tune your sugar pants in to learn how to apply the rule to your life!

What you can expect in the first month of the RQ membership 

The song, tv series, and film Kira is currently obsessed with 

Scientific fact of the day: Emotions are only supposed to last 90 seconds? 

How the Golden Rule and Platinum Rule shows up in relationships

Why the Golden Rule is keeping you single or unhappy 

How to apply the Platinum Rule to friendships, dating, and relationships


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About the Host:

Kira is a positive psychology practitioner, certified life coach, and founder of Relationship Quotient. She has been helping people from around the globe build important dating and relationships mindsets and skills since 2007.  

She is based in Madison WI…and yes, she loves cheese. 🧀

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