About RQ

Who we are.  What we believe.

Good News! You are not too broken or messed up for love.

After coaching singles for the past 14 years, here is what I learned:

  1. The truth is dating and relationships are completely different than 40 years ago. We now want beautiful, equal partnerships, yet we have zero idea how to make that happen.

  2. The truth is, you were probably not role-modeled a healthy relationship by your caretakers. so you have no idea what it looks like or feels like.

  3. The truth is you grew up in a culture that values fantasy over reality, quick-fixes over deep work, and happily-ever-afters over the truth of what it takes to be in a long-term relationship. 

  4. The truth is great relationships take important mindsets and real relationship skills that you were never taught.

and you can learn mindsets & skills!

if you learned how to ride a bike or swim, you can learn how to have amazing relationships.

and you can learn mindsets & skills!

if you learned how to ride a bike or swim, you can learn how to have amazing relationships.

OUR VAlues

We believe that love can change the world.

Who would we be as a society if people felt loved, heard & seen on a daily basis?

OUR VAlues

We believe that love can change the world.

Who would we be as a society if people felt loved, heard & seen on a daily basis?

Our values & beliefs

WHO WE ARE

Meet Kira


Kira Sabin

Kira is a positive psychology practitioner + healthy dating and relationship educator who has been helping singles around the globe build mindsets and skills since 2007.

Currently obsessed with: Ted Lasso, neuroscience, Phoebe Bridgers, Up and Vanished podcast, easy mindfulness, AP Bio, Cody Fry, smarty podcasts, Brene, Icelandic Music, and the book Burnout.

Always obsessed with: foster kittens, Danny (the Hubs), Burt's Bees lip balm, Parks & Rec, When Harry Met Sally, strong-ass coffee, my fur-babies Rex & Ruby, MCU, sloths, documentaries, amazing chips & salsa, GBBO, unicorns, 80s movies (especially Goonies & Princess Bride), sparkling water, Trader Joe's, swearing, Imogen Heap, and cheese.

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